Thursday, August 28, 2008

break-up panic..

breaking up is hard to do, but moving forward and letting go may seem harder.

tama diba?

hindi naman ako talagang brokenhearted.. ahahaha! as if!

ok! ok!

maybe i am.. or i was? ewan! past is past.. but im the kind of person na mabilis makacope up though matagal makalimot.

thanks to this article i have read in cosmo mag, it's a big help for all of you (ahem, for us) heartbroken people to easily cope up with the big BREAK UP.

(sa lagay na ito hindi ko naman inaannounce sa mundo na brokenhearted ako.. pag pasensyahan nyo na.. ito ang tinatawag ng epekto ng pagiging sawi.. hahaha!)

anyway, here are the quick tips:

1. FACE THE FACTS. Coz you don't see him/her anymore, you'll reach a point where "you forget why you broke up in the first place," says Emily Zachery. Keep yourself grounded with what's true.

2. FIND THE BEST WAY TO COPE. Whether it's saying a final goodbye, going away on a trip, or surrounding yourself with friends, work on how you can achieve closure.

3. LET YOURSELF HEAL. Focus on healing rather than regret or revenge, advises Zachery. Otherwise, you'll just be stuck with anger. Remember, "everyone recovers from a breakup in their own time table."

easy steps right? so why don't you try it.. just make sure you do it religiously.. u know, DETERMINATION.. that is!

hay.. nagsalita ang "determinado" kuno.. hehehe..

ahmm.. kung feeling mo nakakarelate ka, kakabreak mo man o hindi.. wala namang problema yan mare o pare!

at kung feeling mo naman kakabreak nyo lang ng "syota-mo-na-hindi-alam-na-syota-ka-nya-pala" eh ok lang naman yan. sabi nga ng kamikazee.. libre lang mangarap..

kaya lang sabi din ng pussycat dolls.. "be careful what you wish for coz you might just get it"..

tama nga naman!

yun nga lang.. iba ang nakuha mo.. ANG PAIT AT SAKIT na sana'y hindi mo nakamtan kung hindi ka nag feeling feelingan ng bonggang bongga!

at kung hindi ka naman brokenhearted.. just take note of this.. pwede rin ibookmark mo.. im telling you, time will come, you will get your heart broken too. hehehe!

o pano ba yan.. till here na lang..

sana'y magtagumpay ka at maghilom na ang sugat na dinulot ng pesteng break up na hanggang ngayon ay hindi ko pa rin alam kung bakit naimbento pa yan!

Good luck na lang!!

=)

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

thaks for the tips.. its nice.. everybody might use it later on.. maybe even me.. keep posting a nice blog girl.. Godbless

Anonymous said...

ate han.

thanks for the tips.

i'll take note of them.

keep it up.

God bless :)